Will I be pretty?

“The word pretty is unworthy of everything you will be!”

“You will be pretty intelligent, pretty creative, pretty amazing.

But you, will never be merely ‘pretty’.”

Listen to this video for understanding this entire attitude and if you want to read also a full transcript of it, visit the website called Sociological Images: Seeing is Believing.

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” R.W. Emerson

In the same direction,

Beauty itself soon fades, and when a woman has beauty and nothing else, well, it’s like putting all the goods in the shop window, isn’t it? And the moment she loses her good looks–poor creature! what is she? Just a mere bit of faded finery to be thrown aside.

HENRY ARTHUR JONES, Her Tongue

A real woman’s body suffers changes in time...This is a real woman after years pass by (check this site for real photos of women, not cover magazines) …. whether you like it or not, whether you accept it or not, no matter how much you fight with these changes, they will reach you one day, more or less dramatic as these womans….

Seeing these photos does not mean to become resigned and accepting it all, it does not mean that you should not do your best to keep fit and nicely looking, but please, get real…women and men, stop the fantasies about looking like cover magazines images or seeing cover magazines beauties in your house your entire life….life is real, and real people’s bodies are reacting a little bit different to the touch of time…

….there’s no available photoshop for what you see every moment around through your eyes…..

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

MARGARET HUNGERFORD, Molly Bawn

…..Let’s do a small imagination exercise starting from the website above, http://thisisawoman.com/….

  • For women....if you would look like the most shocking photo you saw….how meaningful will  you still be for your life partner, without your beauty, your prettiness? What else do you have to offer when your beauty fades away? What else is there left to love from your person?
  • For men...if your significant life partner would look like one of the most shocking photos above, what is there left for you to love? What is truly important and worthy for you once their beauty fades away?

Think about it for a moment….

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Women, what you think it will be left, what is still lovable about you,  it’s what is truly worthy and meaningful to care, nurture and develop every moment of your life.

Men, what is left for you to still love after years and years passing by over  your woman, it’s truly worthy to search for in your significant other half and life partner.

Love built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies.

JOHN DONNE,  The Anagram

“Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.”

Sophia Loren

How beautiful do you feel?